Indie, Press (-ed for Time)

So, I'm about to break all the rules of Blogging 101. I'll apologize for my absence. Then I'll whine about being in a time crunch, running out of pertinent stuff to post, worrying about balancing it all and remaining creatively productive. If you want to skip out on this post, please don't think I'll take offense.

But before you go, consider this: maybe those rules evolved to shield us from grappling with a greater truth. Maybe they're an unfair gag order slapped on beleaguered writers so we can keep our collective myths intact. Just like the American Dream mythology, the one that says we can all pick ourselves up by our bootstraps and rise through the social and economic ranks to land on top like Bill Gates and Donald Trump, we writers embrace the notion that no matter our current station and circumstances, we too could hit big like Stephanie Meyers and James Patterson. That hard work will triumph over all manner of odds.

Bullshit.

I didn't intend to swear. That just sort of slipped out. But it's the truth. We are being sold a bill of goods, folks. Don't get me wrong; I certainly don't mean it's impossible to beat odds, break out, work hard and succeed. What I do mean is this: Not all of us will. And not all of us have time to follow some prescribed formula to success. What's more, let's acknowledge that lots of the writers who are successful did none of the things the self-appointed gurus are holding out as the only way to make it. They're just making money by selling us their guides to "get rich published quick."

For me, I've discovered the difficulty of keeping up with social media (a solid blog schedule, tweeting daily, maintaining facebook) while researching, writing, critiquing, revising, querying my WIPs. Along with researching the ever changing nature of publication, both traditional and indie.

And did I mention I work fifty to sixty hours a week, commute an hour a day, and have huge caretaking responsibilities? So, yeah. Priorities do matter. We can't have it all, at least not all at the same time. Something has to give. For me, it's been my writing.

That needs to change.

I started writing as a way to nurture my overloaded soul. Today I reclaim that path, and will follow it where it leads and at a pace which allows me time to enjoy the journey. If this means I blog infrequently, tweet sporadically, and generally drop out of the social scene from time to time, so be it.

No apologies.

Please weigh in: how do you handle it all?

Five Stars, All the Time?

Five stars, all the time? Tenacious Ink posted that's exactly what she does on Goodreads. And I'm pretty much in agreement, although my standard is a 4. If the book totally amazes me, I'll go with the 5.

But now, I'm considering erasing all my ratings, like Teralyn Rose blogged about doing on her post.

You'll notice I rarely post reviews on my blog. I've interviewed authors, which I really love to do. But I don't normally review their books. Here's why: everybody has different tastes, and I shouldn't be telling people whether to like a novel or not. That's up to them. Plus, there's this bone-chilling story of the author who sued. And the author who probably earned more from her lawsuit than from sales of her book.

So, when I was asked to do a review for a blog tour, I hedged. Instead, I posted some of what I just said, about not wanting to take my subjective opinion and influence someone before they had a chance to form their own opinion. I opted to just give a general overview about the book. Ratings free. And learned something very interesting in the process.
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One, ratings and reviews often have motives attached to them. And two, I probably should be careful about offering to review books and join blog tours. After all, there's no way of knowing whether I like the book before I read it, and if the goal is publicity for the author and book, I'm stuck with whether to back out (as I was asked to consider -- instead I deleted the explanation above about not giving ratings, which the blog host called a rant) or compromise my ethics/own chances at publicity. Apparently, the blogosphere maintains a blacklist for folks who are honest, as the blog host also pointed out, as she warned that I should not include anything controversial on my blog for fear of offending potential readers.

Huh?

Frankly, my books might offend a potential reader or two. Not everyone will love my books. And some readers will adore the stories, and be glad I took risks to write about topics that speak to them and reflect certain truths in their own lives.

Other writers have other truths to express. I might not like them, but it's not my business to dissuade readers away from discovering these.

What is art for, after all?

Writers are supposed to pour themselves into their stories, not just pop out bland little fluff muffins that couldn't possibly bother anyone. Yes, I know, this is a business (for some people). But the truth is, very few authors really make a living at this business.

Why sell your soul in the process?


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Sparkfest Day One: Books that Doomed Me to Write


(I posted this first on my author blog, but want to share it on my writing blog, too.)

Today marks the start of Christine Tyler's Sparkfest that I blogged about yesterday. I'm so hyped!

Here's the recap:
"As writers, we're always striving to get out a message of inspiration to others. This blogfest is a celebration for those who have done this for us."

Today, I want to answer her first question:

What book made you realize you were doomed to be a writer? 

This is the most impossible question to answer, because in truth, there was no single book that "doomed" me. There were hundreds. I'll bet this is true for most writers. My earliest memories include picture books galore such as Dr. Seuss' Cat in the Hat, Maurice Sendak's Higglety Piglety Pop, and Harold and the Purple Crayon. When I got older, and was the weird kid who didn't fit it, I ran away with the Boxcar Children. I hid in the Metropolitan Museum of Art with From the Mixed of Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler. I space traveled with A Wrinkle in Time.

As I got older, the library was my refuge from an unhappy childhood. I checked out everything I could on every obsession that caught me: mars, for example, and ESP (see, I told you was a little weird). I read classics such as Dickens' A Tale of Two Cities, and heart-wrenching reads like Sylvia Plath's The Bell Jar. And I wrote. Poems, stories, journals.

Photo by Jeff Smith at Idaho White Water Rafting
Then life swept me down its river and left me clutching my raft for dear life. Years passed. The longing to write never left, but the dream of being a writer was thrown overboard like some non-essential treasure the raft couldn't bear the weight of.

Until my mother died.

And then my father did, too.

The dream turned up on the shore as my raft cascaded over terrifying falls, white water churning below, threatening to take me into its depths. It was there, around the bend, beside the rocks which damned the stream and slowed my plunge downstream.

 I picked it up, turned it over, saw the dream was still shiny and new. Like finding a long lost diamond ring I'd given up hope of ever finding, my joy overwhelmed the fear of entering this new and scary relationship. I picked up a pen and a notebook, and began to write.

For many months, it was a secret passion. I'll tell you more tomorrow, and share one of my first journal entries from those days when I was a closet novelist.

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